It is probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching along with empowering women like you on exactly what to do to confidently walk away from toxic relationships, rediscover their authentic self, build their self-esteem while confidently living the life that they deserve.
Throughout Chandy’s journey from abuse, she went from survivor to warrior. She became an expert at empowering women to reveal and break through roadblocks that have held many back from living their best life. As a mother of three daughters, a widow at the age of twenty-four, she knows all too well the mindset of a woman who wants more but just does not know what that more looks like or how to get to it. One who has had ife full of obstacles and many hurdles to overcome.
But one thing she does know after living the life of:
- Having a baby at 15 years old
- Domestic Violence along with many others
- Diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety
- Childhood Abuse
- Losing houses, cars
That defining moment in my life happened over 20 years ago. I was in an abusive relationship with a man I thought was the love of my life. He had a terrifying dark side that many had never seen. What I thought was love was something very different. I felt so broken and alone when we got together, having already buried a baby and my ex-husband who took his own life. My life had taken me down a long dark journey from the beginning.
No amount of pain would have prepared me for what was coming. When he put a gun to my head, it was a life changing moment because I knew that my daughters would be left with no one. I did not know how in the hell I was going to pull this off because he could kill me, it was at that time I began crafting my plan to freedom. I am thankful to have survived. As bad as my relationship was, it was the type of security blanket that was familiar to many. I knew I deserved better but did not know what “better” looked like or how to get it. I was not going to allow the negative to take over. It was then that I started to feel better and began to really love myself for the first time. It truly felt like a ton of bricks had been lifted off my shoulders. I could breathe again; I was finally free. I was happy, smiling– so proud of myself because I finally did it! I created this new life for myself and could finally take a deep breath and appreciate how far I had come. I really did it. What was even better, I knew that I could do anything I wanted now. I cleaned up my past and started teaching women how they can achieve the same: I watch their confidence and self-esteem SOAR as they reclaim their lives! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women break free from unhealthy relationships and live the life they desire. Start loving themselves, build their confidence, create major breakthroughs, and enjoy the FREEDOM, and HAPPINESS they need to live more joyful and fulfilling lives.
She now specializes in empowering women and her audience to discover and use their inner POWER to excel to the next level in their career, relationships, lives, and businesses. Chandy exhibits how a next level woman lives and looks like after being bruised and broken.
Chandy is a keynote speaker, Relationship Specialist, and Influence Expert known to many. She now uses this training and experience to lead thousands to happiness and the life they desire.
Having overcome a series of life changing experiences at an early age, which left her financially and emotionally destroyed, Chandy has drawn upon her past pain to connect her closer to her purpose. Her mission is to use her own journey as a means to help others ignite their inner strength and realize their true potential
As the Chairwoman and CEO of Breaking the Silence with Chandy®, her courses, events, and results-based coaching programs have helped many. A company that supports and empowers the masses to not just Win but to Dominate!!